Webseite von Dr. Khalil Jindy Rashow

 

The Yezidis in Diaspora:

Clash of cultures and an unknown future

 

 

A lecture prepared for the scholarly ( academic) conference:

Yezidism in Transition Communities at Home and in the Diaspora

Khalil Jindy Rashow

The migration of the Yezidis to Europe:

The Yezidi migration from Turkey to Europe has started in mid sixties according to a signed agreements between the German and the Turkish governments and due to the needs of German to working force. The migration began with the arrival of groups of Yezidi workers and their settlement in Germany1. This migration has increased after 1984 as the Kurdish armed struggle in turkish Kurdistan started against the Turkish regime.

 

The Yezidi migration turned,  from a work-seeking migration, to a systematic one under an increased process of religious, national and political persecution. These huge numbers started seeking political and humanitarian asylum.   

 

Based on the first visit by Professor  Wiesner and the Minister of the Interior of North Rhine-Westphalia, Dr. Schnurr,  which has been followed by a visit by a second delegation to Kurdistan of Turkey, and after filing a report about the Yezidi situation there, they have been accepted in Germany as a persecuted religious minority2.This decision is still valid for them (the Yezidis). Only five hundred Yezidis, Out of thirty thousand, are still living in Turkey, 3. Most of the migrants  are now living in Germany and in other European countries. 

 

The migration of the Yezidis of Iraq, Syria, Armenia and Georgia, began in early 1990. In Iraq, the second gulf war constituted a turning point. But in Armenia and Georgia it began in the wake of the collapse of the soviet union and following the changes in the political, economic and the social circumstances there.

 

In Syria, alongside the bad economic situation,  the Yezidis have not been recognized officially neither as a religion nor as a nationality and most of them are treated like foreigners.

 

Despite the absence of an official and accurate census, estimates show that there are about (55) fifty five thousand Yezidis from all the above mentioned countries living in Germany. There are smaller numbers of them in other European countries compared with Germany. Among these countries: Belgium, Holland, Denmark, Sweden, Norway, Austria, and Britain in addition to America, Canada and Australia.

 

The social and the cultural background of the Yezidis:

 

The social structure of the Yezidis is tribal, clan based and religious ( sheikh-Peer- Murid). The overwhelming majority of the Yezidis live in Europe, whether arriving from Kurdistan of Turkey to Germany as a working force or migrating later on from Kurdistan of Turkey, Iraq, Syria, Armenia or Georgia for political and economic reasons, are of provincial, rural and pastoral decent. A considerable  number of them are holding university degrees, others are  graduates of institutes or undergraduates. Others  are working in the services sector.

This means the prevalence of phenomena like illiteracy, ignorance and poverty and the domination  of patriarchal thoughts and worship of ancestors spirits ( Al- Khudan). In addition to the supremacy of religious ideas, the Yezidis cling to the past and their glorifying of saints (holy men)  spirits ( Khudan – Persons) more than believing in abstract ideas, sacred books and texts namely, the living being under influence of the dead and their yearning to the past and worshiping of graves and the idolization of human beings and building on extinguished ruins  ( this is, in my opinion,  the reason  the continuity and the holding together of the Yezidi religion at home) 

 

  • Some psychological barriers:

 

Historically, and in the wake of the Islamic military campaigns outside the Arabic peninsula to spread Islam under the second caliph  Omer Bin AL- Khatab, especially within the Sasanite and the Achmin states (dynasties) borders and in Mesopotamia and  Bilad al-Sham, the followers of revealed religions (Jews, Christians, the Zoroastrians and the Sabaean and the Mandean ) have been dealt with as free non-Moslems enjoying Moslem protection and have the right to stay on their beliefs on condition that they pay a certain tax.  

 

As regarding believers of other non-revealed religions, the worshipers of natural phenomena and of the sun, among others the Yezidis, they have been regarded as infidels and have been obliged either to give up their beliefs or to be exterminated!    And Then, most of the Kurds accepted Islam forcefully or freely and those who rejected the new religion resorted to the mountains and to inaccessible areas and turned to a closed religions.

 

The Kurds, who converted to Islam took over the idea of the conqueror against their brothers and sisters in blood and nationality and joined the invading army in persecuting those who disagreed with their religion. Successive regimes in Turkey, Syria and Iraq supported and encouraged religious and sectarian differences among different nations, and these regimes encouraged at the same time, the Kurdish landlords and the fanatic Moslems against the Yezidis and practiced inhumane methods and confiscated their possessions and their properties and ravished their women as war prisoners.... etc.

 

This situation created generally a psychological barrier between the Yezidis and Islam and especially among the Moslem Kurds and Yezidi Kurds. This caused the accumulation of a sense of carelessness among the old generation of the Yezidis. The word (the Kurds)  for the Yezidis became the same as  the word ( the Moslems). 

 

 

·      The crises of the Yezidis in Diaspora  

 

The Yezidi, like any other easterner, faces a number of crises. But we will concentrate on two main crisis:

 

First: National affiliation crises.

Second: The religious crises

 

As regarding the national crisis: when the first generation moved to Germany and to the rest of  European countries, they transported traces of their persecution, tragedies and the bad impressions about the fanatic  Moslem Kurds ( both offspring of one nation) to their children namely, to the new generation which has created a real identity crisis for groups of the new generation in Germany representing the identity loss crisis and a kind of carelessness towards national affiliation (belonging) and towards the Kurdish case and its national liberation movement in general.

 

Nationalism represents, for the small religious and national groups migrating to Europe, especially the Yezidis, a safe havens to protect their national, spiritual and religious heritage, their humane values and their national aspirations. On Kurdistan soil, where their sacred worship places exist, and their spiritual and humane history is connected to this land, without this affiliation ( belonging),  a certain individual feels as if being lost or like a tree branch that has been separated from the tree and doesn’t recognize (know) its origin!

 

A young Ezidi published an article in which he states that the German government  is showing a negligence on the educational side towards the Kurdish community and that its internal policy  towards the Kurds, among them the Yezidis, the German authorities are reflecting its economic and strategic  interests with the states which occupy Kurdistan. For instance, the German government doesn’t allow T.V. or radio programs to be transmitted in Kurdish, as it is the case with other foreign communities and there is no institute or a department for Kurdish studies at German universities and institutes. and it is very rare to find a kindergarten for Kurdish children and they are not taught in their native language. There are also no official translators working with the authorities related to issues of foreigners…etc. Also,  the German authorities are adopting the same attitudes the Turkish state takes towards the Kurds and don’t allow the registration of the Kurdish newborn children in Germany under Kurdish names.

 

Since languages are very important carriers of heritage, literature and the history from a generation of a nation to another one, in addition, the above mentioned methods will affect the spread of the Kurdish culture and heritage negatively in a way that the new generations of the Yezidis will alienate themselves from the history and the heritage of their ancestors generally and from the people of Kurdistan especially, as a result, the crisis of personal acquaintance with each other among the generations themselves and between them and the outside world, other nations, will be deepened.

The second crisis which the new generation faces in Diaspora ( for instance, in Germany) is the religious crisis, but we need to admit in advance that European constitutions and the German Constitution doesn’t discriminate against religions and beliefs, on the contrary they protect and respect the freedom of religions and beliefs. The reasons for the crisis is  in part chronic and goes back with its roots to the Yezidi civil society and the ruling regimes at home in general and in the other part is fresh (new) and came to existence paralleling the western culture.

 

I will try here to summarize the reasons for the crisis in the following points:

-       The huge difference between school curriculums in Yezidis’ lands of origin ( Turkey, Iraq and Syria) where Islamic and national tendencies are dominant, and the secular western curriculums, this leads to the alienation of the pupils from their culture, and their religion and make them melting away in the culture of the western societies where they live.

-       The Yezidi pupil was, and still attending the Islam lessons in Turkey and Syria, but in Iraq, the Arabic part of it,  he/she was leaving Islam lessons under the former regime and before that. In Germany the Yezidi pupil is given the choice, either to attend the Christian lessons or not. In all these cases, the pupil will suffer from the inferiority complex and feels some kind of disorder, even some insult and this will affect his general behavior and his subconscious.

-       Islamic legal procedures are imposed on the Yezidis at home ( Turkey, Iraq and Syria) in personal status cases like marriage contracts, divorce  and inheritance cases and they are not recognized as witnesses because they are regarded as followers of non- written religions, therefore they are (infidels). But in the west ( for instance, in Germany) its laws are applied on the Yezidis, and they are allowed to complete their marriage contracts in their churches according to the rules of the Christian religion.

-       The weakness of the Yezidis’ religious and worldly leadership and their occupation only with their private issues more than the issues of the Yezidis and resolving their problems. Therefore the rights of the Yezidis are ignored especially at home.

-       The absence of a unified sacred religious book adopted by all Yezidis, this leads to confusion in religious knowledge and rules. As a result, this leads too to the absence of a unified religious discourse, both at home and abroad.

-       The misunderstanding of yezidian religion, as if it has only to do with the past                        and with the belief in supernatural issues…etc.

-       The problem of the new generations in Diaspora lies in the fact that, they either do understand nothing or very little about their religion, or they are not sure of their knowledge. This creates (suspicion) and some sort of internal psychological struggle which makes them concerned and disturbed.

-       If the gatherings of Yezidis in villages has been one of the factors which helped them to survive and to keep their heritage, rituals and traditions, but their spread in cities and townships and the villages of countries they migrated to, has weakened the bases of their religious, social and national entity.

-       Being busy with their work and leaving their children for hours alone would keep them away from their parents and from their traditions, rituals and religious teachings.

-       Since the Yezidis have no rules like wearing headscarves and have little religious background and no sacred book to depend on, their male and female students attending Christian school lessons would be easily influenced by the new education               (the Christian). And get alienated from their own origin.

            

 

·      Clash of cultures

 

Moving from its homeland, the old Yezidi generation has carried almost all his oriental values with all its positive and negative aspects, with itself to Diaspora. We can say that the

overwhelming majority of these values and traditions are not in line with the positive and secular laws of the west. For instance, cases like murder and revenge and the point of view as regarding sex and honor concepts, and marriages issues that some times take place even without their consent and demanding dowry, discriminations based on gender and polygamy, freedom restrictions imposed on children and the youth by fathers and the society and trying to impose conducts of a patriarchal authority in a society of freedoms and laws, the control of Authoritarianism tendencies and the phenomena such as hatred and suspicion against others and hypocrisy ...etc. we can also say that the Yezidi who moves from his homeland to the western countries, is like some one who moves from a total darkness to a highly illuminated area! But at the end this light may kill the dignity and the pride of the oriental human being, whether he likes it or not..!! 

 

the situation of Yezidism, as a closed and non-missionary religious minority depends one internal marriages,  is very difficult. The negligent traditional Yezidi would not be punished in Diaspora for refusing eating lettuce and pork or for not clothing in blue, not shaving his moustache, not wearing the ring ( Tuk, Al- Zik), urinating while he stands...etc all this is tolerated and he will not be punished for his violations. However, we are confronted with taking decisions in cases related to the pillars of the Yezidi religion, are they dealt with as the ancestors complied with, or should we find a solution for these complexes? For instance, how should we react towards marriages occurring between a Yezidi and non-Yezidi  ( both genders)?

 

I would like to mention only some current confirmed cases - without referring to their names - in Germany:      

1-    During a marriage party, I saw with my own eyes in the city of Bielefeld a Yezidi man from Kurdistan of Turkey with his German wife and their son (daughter) carried by the mother of the Yezidi man and the rest of the family without raising any attention or causing any refusal or condemnation.

2-    The marriage of a Yezidi girl from Turkey secretly to a non-Yezidi and  giving birth to a child. I don’t think that their relatives were not being aware of that. And the marriage of another Yezidi girl from Turkey ( resident of North-Rhine ) to a German, and another Yezidi girl from Syria to a Moslem Arab from Algeria, and another Yezidi girl from the city of Hanover returning to her relatives after staying for many months with a non-Yezidi!!  

3-    The formal marriage of two Yezidi young men from Lower Saxony last year ( gay marriage), both live now in Germany!!

4-     A girl left her family and lives now with another girl ( lesbian marriage)       

5-    Two young Yezidi men from Iraqi Kurdistan married formally to a German woman and a Russian woman, one of them has child, and they are in touch with their families. The two young men and their families are proud of this relationship!!

6-    A Yezidi man from Iraq and another one from Syria have killed last year their wives in the city of Bielefeld because they were not obeying them as it was the case at home!!

7-     A Yezidi woman files a case against her husband for raping her, and the court sentencing him to three years imprisonment in addition to punishing by a big fine. And a German court imposing a four and a half year sentence upon a Yezidi from Syria carrying the German citizenship based on a rape case filed by his wife!!

8-    A Yezidi mother from a village close to the city of Celle commits suicide because of her sons disobedience, and her belief that his problems will stain the name of the family!! And the case of a Yezidi man from Celle late 2006 who commits suicide because of the anti tribal and religious traditions’ behavior of his son!

9-    I heard from many young men about the (initiation of an electronic get –to- know –each-other room chat) for Yezidi youth from of both genders ( young boys and girls) to get acquainted with ( know) each other called (students’ forum), and some times a young Moslem boy enters the room and alleges to be a Yezidi and dating a Yezidi girl and they become friends and may be get married to each other. This may be disclosed later! And there is a group of Yezidi youth calling itself ( Party Govand) or the “Yezidi disco”  arranging parties for Yezidi young girls and boys!!

 

One of the giant (big) crisis which arises in Diaspora is the huge gap between the oriental, tribal and  strict religious education of the old generation and what the new generation learns and confronts in the countries of immigration. The old generation wants to transport, or even impose, the tribal, nomadic and religious values on the new generation and creates a long list of taboos without presenting a convincing arguments for them to a degree that just a school excursion or a cafe or a swimming outing by the boy or the girl with his or her classmates is regarded as one of the prohibited things! These practices leave a negative impact on the psychology of the new generation and creates social problems and even psychological crises for them because the youth can’t harmonize between the wishes of their parents and their wishes in the framework of the open societies they live in. So, they  have nothing left other than a reusal against all the values of their fathers and grandfathers. In return, psychological illnesses, heart attacks and strokes spread among parents when they lose their parental control and when they feel that they are no longer wanted and they are not, both socially and economically, productive!!

         

New generations aspirations and problems

 

There are three complexes which could (perhaps) lead to a total decay and destruction of the Yezidi society in Diaspora if we didn’t deal with it in a rational way or we didn’t find acceptable solutions for them, these are:

 

Firstly: the concept of dignity, honor and sex: there is a huge gap between the point of view of an easterner and the European point of view about these issues. They are sensitive matters and it couldn’t  be discussed among the members of the old generation, and the new generation looks at them through European eyes. This means the destabilization of the easterner Yezidi family.

 

Secondly: the search for freedom: this means  in its simplest sense, exiting the family and patriarchal  ring and the cocoon of tribal habits. I do believe that the reason why so many Yezidi women, girls and youths joining the PKK is their belief that they will find the full freedom there, but as soon as they enter this unknown world they will be confronted with a totally different reality where freedom and democracy can’t live together under one roof furthermore, withdrawal and leaving the political party is no more possible!

 

Thirdly: profit and the hunt for wealth: the hunt for wealth (greed) is spoiling morals in general. The Diaspora Yezidi can’t harmonize between his long hours of hard work and his efforts to follow the education of his children, according to eastern ethics and religious teachings, especially, as we know, these children and youth are under the influence of kindergarten, schools, the street, television and under the influence of the media and seductive sexual adds. This means that the authority of the external environment is much more powerful than of the parents.  

Fourthly:  the supporting law: there is a basic point added to the three complexes which causes the disintegration of the oriental family ( including the Yezidi family) and that is the positive and the secular laws of the western countries which support the human rights of human beings as they are fetus in a mother's womb to the rights of the elderly. These western laws and ethics are in contradiction with  the oriental ethics and laws, thus the new generation is complying with the laws of the countries of residency not with the ones imposed by their parents and relatives or by ancestors’ religion, and any pressure exerted on the children by parents or on women by husbands will push them to seek the protection of law.   

 

Future  prospects

 

the Yezidis’ ability, despite lacking a written sacred book, to keep the continuity of their religion under injustice and annihilation attempts at home draws our attention. But in Diaspora, security and stability is leading to a slow death of that solid society at home!!

 

Based on this simplified map of the above crisis and complexes, it seems difficult to believe that Diaspora Yezidis / Germany would be able to keep even 30% of the same teachings and rituals of their ancestors’ religion of the old generation.

 

I expect that after 70-80 years from now, Yezidi religion in Diaspora will experience serious changes, and I see that the issue of accepting reforms is very essential, moreover,  it is a way to achieve the continuity of this belief for a longer time through writing down exciting stories for children in their native language and finding learning and educational ways suites the new generation in Diaspora. It is also important to agree to find an elected Yezidi leadership in Europe to lead the Yezidis in Diaspora in agreement with cultural centers, unions and houses created in Europe which present services deserving appreciation and respect. Without their informative and educational activities and efforts, Yezidism could descend quickly to loss.         

 

 

 

 

References:

 

1-    The Qirtal family ( Amin and his brother Abdullah ) was from Shamzi village in Diarbaker province or Yezidis coming to Germany as workers

2-    The second delegation consisted of: Mrs. Kisla Bris and Mr. Verner Bris and Mr. Alexander Steinberg: they presented a report dated 09/1989

3-    See the meeting of the journalist Khidir Al- Domly with the Turkish researcher ( Ahmad Tashqin) during his visit to Iraqi Kurdistan, the electronic newspaper Asda  of 28/11/2006 

4-    Darwish Sharu, the personal identity crisis of the Yezidi youth living in Germany. Lalesh magazine, issue Nr. 2-3 year 1994 Duhok page 175

 

                      

 

Back

 

 

                   E-mail.: info@khaliljindy.com                  www.khaliljindy.com                      webmaster@khaliljindy.com